"...the thingness of something becomes apparent when it is no longer functioning as it did before or it becomes dysfunctional or if it appears in an unexpected place..."

miriam margolyes : who benefits most from anal sex?”
— yes well, quite.
i won’t be reading the second volume of her autobiography, but isn’t it great that this rascal of a human exists? and i can almost hear her uproarious laughter from here at it being called laboriously offensive vulgarity’ by the times.